Ah, that classic story about a young girl, hiring a lawman to chase down a renegade who killed her father. No, wait, thatโs True Grit, the 2010 Western film remade from a John Wayne classic. This true grit is a better story. Itโs the story where you achieve great success in your life, find out what youโre truly made of, and see better results than those who claim they didnโt have the โodds in their favourโ, or were born on the โwrong side of the tracksโ. This is your story.
Well, it could be. Grit isnโt something that everyone intuitively understands, but it can be a learned skill. Itโs one of the defining traits of anybody who has ever achieved anything in their life. Itโs the dogged, determined pursuit of what you want, no matter the odds, or even because of them.
Angela Duckworth, in her bestseller Grit, talks about the differences between people who apply grit to their life, and those who donโt. As she quotes, โOur potential is one thing. What we do with it is quite anotherโ.
Your True Grit
So, what does that mean for you? It means that you may have coasted through your life as the smartest kid in the class. You may have never studied for a test because it was too easy. You may have gotten good grades because you understood the material better than everyone else. Were you the โsmart kidโ in class? Have you been told that youโve been intelligent your whole life? Well, the startling news, and itโs been proven with excellent studies, is that that intelligence means exactly diddly squat in the real world.
Thatโs the bad news. There is good news. As Duckworth says in her book, โas much as talent counts, effort counts twice as muchโ. So, if you feel like youโve been the dumb kid. If youโve been routinely told youโll never amount to anything, or that you havenโt been born as lucky (whatever that means) as anybody else, than you should be comforted by that fact. Grit, not intelligence, is the way of the world. And those who perform harder and work longer, and try more avenues to success, in other words, those who have grit, are those who become successful, happy, and healthy.
Itโs tough to hear this message. Itโs tempting to think that successful people are CEOs or rich businessmen or top athletes because theyโve been fortunate. Duckworth talks about this too. โNobody wants to show you the hours and hours of becoming. Theyโd rather show the highlight of what theyโve become.โ
So, if youโre smart or dumb, if youโve been lucky or unlucky, if youโve been tall or short or fat or slow or whatever else label youโve heard about yourself, that doesnโt matter. It just doesnโt. The only factor that pulls you through, the only thing that sticks in the sieve of time is grit and determination. Everybody can outhustle the competition, and thatโs the exciting message about grit. Anybody can have it and everybody can use it.
By all means, watch the movie True Grit. Itโs a wonderful film and Matt Damon and Josh Brolin are excellent. But even better, develop your own story of true grit. It will serve you better over the course of your whole life.
Further Reading: If this message intrigues you, we here canโt highly recommend enough Angela Duckworthโs book Grit. Along those lines, weโd also like to suggest Mindset by Carol Dweck and The Obstacle is the Way by Ryan Holiday. They all talk about the principles of determination and pushing through no matter whatโs in your way.